1.0Susiana Samsoedinhttps://susianasamsoedin.comsussiesmd@gmail.comhttps://susianasamsoedin.com/index.php/author/sussiesmdgmail-com/rich600338<blockquote class="wp-embedded-content" data-secret="IYae2nWhtA"><a href="https://susianasamsoedin.com/index.php/2023/09/25/the-other-side-of-anger/">The Other Side of Anger</a></blockquote><iframe sandbox="allow-scripts" security="restricted" src="https://susianasamsoedin.com/index.php/2023/09/25/the-other-side-of-anger/embed/#?secret=IYae2nWhtA" width="600" height="338" title="“The Other Side of Anger” — Susiana Samsoedin" data-secret="IYae2nWhtA" frameborder="0" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" scrolling="no" class="wp-embedded-content"></iframe><script type="text/javascript"> /* <![CDATA[ */ /*! This file is auto-generated */ !function(d,l){"use strict";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&"undefined"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!/[^a-zA-Z0-9]/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret="'+t.secret+'"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret="'+t.secret+'"]'),c=new RegExp("^https?:$","i"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display="none";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute("style"),"height"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):"link"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute("src")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener("message",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener("DOMContentLoaded",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll("iframe.wp-embedded-content"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute("data-secret"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+="#?secret="+t,e.setAttribute("data-secret",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:"ready",secret:t},"*")},!1)))}(window,document); /* ]]> */ </script> Orang marah memang bisa kalap alias ga terkontrol. Bahkan bisa menimbulkan kekerasan yang alhasil korbannya orang lain. Pas aku baca dari berbagai artikel, kebanyakan masyarakat melihat kemarahan dari sudut pandang yang negatif. Kemarahan memang berada pada frekuensi yang rendah dan termasuk energi destruktif kalau tidak mampu mengendalikan dan menanganinya dengan dengan baik. Ternyata, menurut penelitian kemarahan ada sisi positifnya juga lho: “Anybody can become angry – that is easy, but to be angry with the right person and to the right degree and at the right time and for the right purpose, and in the right way – that is not within everybody’s power and is not easy.” Aristotle Referensi Amen Clinics. 6 Surprising Benefits of Anger. 2021. https://www.amenclinics.com/blog/6-surprising-benefits-of-anger/#:~:text=Anger%20Increases%20Cooperation&text=harmony%20in%20relationships.-,If%20the%20anger%20is%20justified%2C%20expressed%20constructively%2C%20and%20the%20response,emotional%20intimacy%20and%2For%20cooperation Ratson, Moshe. The Value of Anger: 16 Reasons It’s Good to Get Angry. 2017. https://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/value-of-anger-16-reasons-its-good-to-get-angry-0313175 Schenck, Laura. 6 Surprising Benefits of Getting Angry. 2012. https://www.mindfulnessmuse.com/emotional-intelligence/6-surprising-benefits-of-getting-angryhttps://susianasamsoedin.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/09/angry-teen-asian-girl-standing-offended-pose-frowning-sulking-feeling-defensive-standing-disa-1024x683.jpg