{"id":535,"date":"2023-08-24T15:28:00","date_gmt":"2023-08-24T15:28:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/?p=535"},"modified":"2023-08-24T15:28:00","modified_gmt":"2023-08-24T15:28:00","slug":"toxic-person-and-the-traits","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/index.php\/2023\/08\/24\/toxic-person-and-the-traits\/","title":{"rendered":"Toxic Person and The Traits"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Anakku pernah cerita kalau temannya punya pacar tapi hubungan pacarannya <em>toxic<\/em>. Alhasil, teman anakku sampai suka menggoreskan <em>cutter<\/em> ke tangannya sendiri. Aku jadi ngeri dan pengen tahu, aku itu<em> toxic <\/em>apa ngga dalam berteman. Kemudian, aku juga pengen tahu: Apakah orang sekitarku <em>toxic<\/em>?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-medium-font-size\"><strong>Toxic Person Meaning<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Orang yang toxic berarti manipulatif, <em>self-centered<\/em>, suka mengendalikan dan tergantung pada orang lain. Selain itu, kelakuannya tidak menyenangkan dan jahat sama orang lain. Pokoknya orang ini hanya mikirin dia sendiri dan mampu mengorbankan kepentingan orang lain.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/medium-shot-asian-man-shouting-his-wife-holding-piece-paper-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-536\" srcset=\"https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/medium-shot-asian-man-shouting-his-wife-holding-piece-paper-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/medium-shot-asian-man-shouting-his-wife-holding-piece-paper-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/medium-shot-asian-man-shouting-his-wife-holding-piece-paper-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/medium-shot-asian-man-shouting-his-wife-holding-piece-paper-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/medium-shot-asian-man-shouting-his-wife-holding-piece-paper-2048x1367.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/medium-shot-asian-man-shouting-his-wife-holding-piece-paper-1140x761.jpg 1140w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Sumber Gambar: pressfoto_freepik<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-medium-font-size\"><strong>15 Personality Traits of Toxic Person<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Menurut scienceofpeople.com: ada 31 <em>personality traits <\/em>untuk mengenali ciri orang <em>toxic<\/em>. Bisa jadi bahan juga nih untuk tanya ke diri sendiri. Aku akan bahas 15<em> personality traits <\/em>yang ku anggap paling menonjol aja ya. Ciri-ciri orang toxic:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol>\n<li>Suka bohong untuk <em>defense<\/em><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ngga tulus: haus perhatian dan popularitas.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>Playing the victim<\/em>: menyalahkan orang lain, mencari pembenaran atas perbuatannya.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>Cheating<\/em>: suka berbohong, ngak jujur.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Diem aja; ngak ngomong maunya apa dari soal ide atau solusi.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>Overthinking<\/em>, mudah tersinggung.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Mencari validasi dari orang lain.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Mencoba sekuat tenaga untuk diterima, disukai orang, kepribadian berubah menyesuaikan kepribadian orang lain.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ngak fleksibel, kaku.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Arogan<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Menghakimi orang lain.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/index.php\/2023\/03\/24\/the-manipulator\/\">Manipulatif<\/a> untuk mendapatkan sesuatu tanpa bekerja.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>Attention seeking<\/em>: cara cari perhatiannya negatif.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><em>Guilt Tripping<\/em>: buat orang lain merasa bersalah.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Ngga bisa dipercaya.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-medium-font-size\"><strong>How to Deal with Toxic People<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Lebih lanjut, berikut merupakan cara menghadapi orang toxic. Pertama, buat batasan. Kedua, kurangi komunikasi. Ketiga, akhiri hubungan dan yang terakhir meminimalisir interaksi dengan orang toxic tersebut. Kemudian, apa yang harus dilakukan ketika merasa diri toxic?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote\">\n<p><strong><em>Kalau merasa diri toxic: sadari, terima, ubah menjadi lebih baik dan minta maaf pada teman yang disakiti.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<cite>                                                                                                        Susiana Samsoedin<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>10 February 2023<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Referensi<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>PsychCentral. What\u2019s a Toxic Person and How to Deal with Them. 2021. <a href=\"https:\/\/psychcentral.com\/blog\/whats-a-toxic-person-how-do-you-deal-with-one\">https:\/\/psychcentral.com\/blog\/whats-a-toxic-person-how-do-you-deal-with-one<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Harper, Caitlin. How To Handle The Toxic People In Your Life. <a href=\"https:\/\/mywellbeing.com\/ask-a-therapist\/how-to-deal-with-toxic-people#:~:text=When%20it%20comes%20to%20toxic,interaction%2C%20or%20ending%20the%20relationship.\">https:\/\/mywellbeing.com\/ask-a-therapist\/how-to-deal-with-toxic-people#:~:text=When%20it%20comes%20to%20toxic,interaction%2C%20or%20ending%20the%20relationship.<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Anakku pernah cerita kalau temannya punya pacar tapi hubungan pacarannya toxic. Alhasil, teman anakku sampai suka menggoreskan cutter ke tangannya sendiri. Aku jadi ngeri dan pengen tahu, aku itu toxic apa ngga dalam berteman. Kemudian, aku juga pengen tahu: Apakah orang sekitarku toxic? Toxic Person Meaning Orang yang toxic berarti manipulatif, self-centered, suka mengendalikan dan tergantung pada orang lain. Selain itu, kelakuannya tidak menyenangkan dan jahat sama orang lain. Pokoknya orang ini hanya mikirin dia sendiri dan mampu mengorbankan kepentingan orang lain. 15 Personality Traits of Toxic Person Menurut scienceofpeople.com: ada 31 personality traits untuk mengenali ciri orang toxic. Bisa jadi bahan juga nih untuk tanya ke diri sendiri. Aku akan bahas 15 personality traits yang ku anggap paling menonjol aja ya. Ciri-ciri orang toxic: How to Deal with Toxic People Lebih lanjut, berikut merupakan cara menghadapi orang toxic. Pertama, buat batasan. Kedua, kurangi komunikasi. Ketiga, akhiri hubungan dan yang terakhir meminimalisir interaksi dengan orang toxic tersebut. Kemudian, apa yang harus dilakukan ketika merasa diri toxic? Kalau merasa diri toxic: sadari, terima, ubah menjadi lebih baik dan minta maaf pada teman yang disakiti. Susiana Samsoedin 10 February 2023 Referensi PsychCentral. What\u2019s a Toxic Person and How to Deal with Them. 2021. https:\/\/psychcentral.com\/blog\/whats-a-toxic-person-how-do-you-deal-with-one Harper, Caitlin. How To Handle The Toxic People In Your Life. https:\/\/mywellbeing.com\/ask-a-therapist\/how-to-deal-with-toxic-people#:~:text=When%20it%20comes%20to%20toxic,interaction%2C%20or%20ending%20the%20relationship.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":true,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10,11],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v20.5 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Toxic Person and The Traits - Susiana Samsoedin<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/index.php\/2023\/08\/24\/toxic-person-and-the-traits\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Toxic Person and The Traits - Susiana Samsoedin\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Anakku pernah cerita kalau temannya punya pacar tapi hubungan pacarannya toxic. 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