{"id":792,"date":"2024-02-02T15:31:21","date_gmt":"2024-02-02T15:31:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/?p=792"},"modified":"2024-02-05T16:20:35","modified_gmt":"2024-02-05T16:20:35","slug":"anak-gadisku","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/index.php\/2024\/02\/02\/anak-gadisku\/","title":{"rendered":"Anak Gadisku"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Aku bersyukur banget punya anak gadis. Umurnya hampir 17 tahun.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/pexels-\u0432\u043b\u0430\u0434\u0438\u043c\u0438\u0440-\u0432\u0430\u0441\u0438\u043b\u044c\u0435\u0432-11993334-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-793\" srcset=\"https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/pexels-\u0432\u043b\u0430\u0434\u0438\u043c\u0438\u0440-\u0432\u0430\u0441\u0438\u043b\u044c\u0435\u0432-11993334-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/pexels-\u0432\u043b\u0430\u0434\u0438\u043c\u0438\u0440-\u0432\u0430\u0441\u0438\u043b\u044c\u0435\u0432-11993334-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/pexels-\u0432\u043b\u0430\u0434\u0438\u043c\u0438\u0440-\u0432\u0430\u0441\u0438\u043b\u044c\u0435\u0432-11993334-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/pexels-\u0432\u043b\u0430\u0434\u0438\u043c\u0438\u0440-\u0432\u0430\u0441\u0438\u043b\u044c\u0435\u0432-11993334-1024x1536.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/pexels-\u0432\u043b\u0430\u0434\u0438\u043c\u0438\u0440-\u0432\u0430\u0441\u0438\u043b\u044c\u0435\u0432-11993334-1365x2048.jpg 1365w, https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/pexels-\u0432\u043b\u0430\u0434\u0438\u043c\u0438\u0440-\u0432\u0430\u0441\u0438\u043b\u044c\u0435\u0432-11993334-1140x1710.jpg 1140w, https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/02\/pexels-\u0432\u043b\u0430\u0434\u0438\u043c\u0438\u0440-\u0432\u0430\u0441\u0438\u043b\u044c\u0435\u0432-11993334-scaled.jpg 1707w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Sumber Gambar: Photo \u0412\u043b\u0430\u0434\u0438\u043c\u0438\u0440 \u0412\u0430\u0441\u0438\u043b\u044c\u0435\u0432_pexels<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-medium-font-size\"><strong>Dahulu Dia<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Dulu, waktu dia masih kurang dari 5 tahun, aku suka bacain dia buku cerita.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dulu, aku sering bacain dia buku cerita sambil makan atau sebelum tidur. Dia suka banget dengan buku-buku bergambar. Masa-masa itu ga akan pernah aku lupain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dulu juga ada kenalanku yang udah aku anggap sebagai kakaknya anakku, tinggal di rumah jagain anakku sampai anakku SMP. Aku ga akan pernah lupain dia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-medium-font-size\"><strong>Sekarang Dia<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Sekarang-sekarang ini, anakku suka banget sama kosmetik. Iyaa.. anakku demen make up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ke mall make up, ke sekolah make up. Kemana pun, dia pergi pasti dia make up an dulu. Setiap bulan, ada aja make up yang dia beli karena habis atau dia mau mencoba make up merk baru.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aku sebagai mamanya temenin dia cari kosmetik. Kami pakai make up remover, sun screen dan bedak yang sama. Dulu waktu aku seumuran dia, aku ga kaya anakku. Aku cenderung cuek dan ga peduli bedakan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Di tambah lagi, aku sering anterin dia ketemu temannya atau buat tugas keluar rumah. Contohnya, waktu itu aku temenin dia ke Senayan Spark bikin tugas photography tentang pemandangan Jakarta waktu malam. Setelah itu, kita berdua cari makan dan nonton live band bareng di cafe yang isinya anak muda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Aku juga kenal dengan teman-teman anakku. Dia suka cerita tentang teman-temannya dan apa yang terjadi di sekolahnya.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-medium-font-size\"><strong>Sekarang Aku<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Seiring berjalannya waktu, aku jadi mikir. Jadi mama yang punya anak perempuan usia teenager itu ga gampang.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Anakku pernah minta aku diam aja ga komentar ketika dia cerita masalah dia. Aku ikutin. Mungkin dia hanya ingin didengar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dari situ aku sadar, aku akan berikan pendapatku ketika diminta. Aku akan berikan pendapat dengan menggunakan kalimat , \u201cSaran mami &#8230;\u201d dan saran yang diberikan juga tanpa penghakiman.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tugas ku hanya membimbing dia. Sementara keputusan untuk jalani hidup dia ya&#8230; ada di tangan dia.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>To Lala: Love you to the Moon and Back.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-post-date\"><time datetime=\"2024-02-02T15:31:21+00:00\">2 February 2024<\/time><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Aku bersyukur banget punya anak gadis. Umurnya hampir 17 tahun. Dahulu Dia Dulu, waktu dia masih kurang dari 5 tahun, aku suka bacain dia buku cerita. Dulu, aku sering bacain dia buku cerita sambil makan atau sebelum tidur. Dia suka banget dengan buku-buku bergambar. Masa-masa itu ga akan pernah aku lupain. Dulu juga ada kenalanku yang udah aku anggap sebagai kakaknya anakku, tinggal di rumah jagain anakku sampai anakku SMP. Aku ga akan pernah lupain dia. Sekarang Dia Sekarang-sekarang ini, anakku suka banget sama kosmetik. Iyaa.. anakku demen make up. Ke mall make up, ke sekolah make up. Kemana pun, dia pergi pasti dia make up an dulu. Setiap bulan, ada aja make up yang dia beli karena habis atau dia mau mencoba make up merk baru. Aku sebagai mamanya temenin dia cari kosmetik. Kami pakai make up remover, sun screen dan bedak yang sama. Dulu waktu aku seumuran dia, aku ga kaya anakku. Aku cenderung cuek dan ga peduli bedakan. Di tambah lagi, aku sering anterin dia ketemu temannya atau buat tugas keluar rumah. Contohnya, waktu itu aku temenin dia ke Senayan Spark bikin tugas photography tentang pemandangan Jakarta waktu malam. Setelah itu, kita berdua cari makan dan nonton live band bareng di cafe yang isinya anak muda. Aku juga kenal dengan teman-teman anakku. Dia suka cerita tentang teman-temannya dan apa yang terjadi di sekolahnya. Sekarang Aku Seiring berjalannya waktu, aku jadi mikir. Jadi mama yang punya anak perempuan usia teenager itu ga gampang. Anakku pernah minta aku diam aja ga komentar ketika dia cerita masalah dia. Aku ikutin. Mungkin dia hanya ingin didengar. 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To Lala: Love you to the Moon and Back.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":true,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[32,11],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v20.5 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Anak Gadisku - Susiana Samsoedin<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Cerita tentang anak gadis penulis yang beranjak remaja dan bagaimana keseharian serta pergumulan penulis dalam mendidik anaknya.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/index.php\/2024\/02\/02\/anak-gadisku\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Anak Gadisku - Susiana Samsoedin\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Cerita tentang anak gadis penulis yang beranjak remaja dan bagaimana keseharian serta pergumulan penulis dalam mendidik anaknya.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/index.php\/2024\/02\/02\/anak-gadisku\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"Susiana Samsoedin\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2024-02-02T15:31:21+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:modified_time\" content=\"2024-02-05T16:20:35+00:00\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"sussiesmd@gmail.com\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"sussiesmd@gmail.com\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"2 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\/\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/index.php\/2024\/02\/02\/anak-gadisku\/\",\"url\":\"https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/index.php\/2024\/02\/02\/anak-gadisku\/\",\"name\":\"Anak Gadisku - 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