{"id":892,"date":"2024-04-25T14:21:47","date_gmt":"2024-04-25T14:21:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/?p=892"},"modified":"2024-04-25T14:21:48","modified_gmt":"2024-04-25T14:21:48","slug":"menantu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/index.php\/2024\/04\/25\/menantu\/","title":{"rendered":"Menantu"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Sebagai menantu, aku berusaha untuk ngertiin mertuaku. Aku yakin, kalian yang punya mertua juga punya pengalaman gimana rasanya mencoba belajar mengerti orang lain, salah satunya mertua. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jadi menantu ga mudah lho, apalagi di awal-awal pernikahan. Untungnya mertuaku baik banget, supportive dan ngertiin aku juga. Apa aja sih tugas menantu menurut pandangan agama Islam, Buddha dan Kristen? Aku rasa perlu juga lihat pandangan dari agama-agama ini, untuk mencoba mereflksi diriku sendiri mengenai peran aku sebagai menantu dalam keluarga, terutama terhadap mertua. Semoga membantu kalian, yang memiliki peran sebagai menantu juga ya.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/pexels-olly-3768131-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-893\" srcset=\"https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/pexels-olly-3768131-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/pexels-olly-3768131-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/pexels-olly-3768131-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/pexels-olly-3768131-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/pexels-olly-3768131-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/susianasamsoedin.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/04\/pexels-olly-3768131-1140x760.jpg 1140w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Sumber gambar: Andrea Piacquadio_pexels<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-medium-font-size\"><strong>Pandangan Agama Islam<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Tugas menantu terhadap mertua menurut pandangan Islam:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li>Memperlakukan mertua seperti orang tua sendiri.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Bersikap baik dan tidak kasar.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Mendekatkan anak dengan mertua.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Memberi rezeki pada mertua.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Memberi doa terbaik pada mertua<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-medium-font-size\"><strong>Pandangan Agama Buddha<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Menurut pandangan agama Buddha, tugas menantu terhadap mertua:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul>\n<li>Memperhatikan kebahagiaan batin mertua. Contoh ajak dan memfasilitasi beribadah.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Dorong mertua untuk melakukan perbuatan baik.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Berbakti kepada mertua.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-medium-font-size\"><strong>Pandangan Agama Kristen<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Menurut pandangan Kristen sebaiknya menantu menerima kekurangan mertua, melengkapi kekurangan mertua dengan kelebihan menantu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Selain itu, menantu jangan melakukan sesuatu yang dapat menimbulkan konflik. Konflik di sini maksudnya bikin ribut antara mertua dan anaknya atau cucu dengan mertua atau ipar dengan mertua.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Menurutt pandanganku rejeki menantu akan semakin bertambah ketika mertua dibuat bahagia. Dan lebih lagi, ketika hubungan baik terjadi, doa mertua terhadap menantu menambah rejeki sang menantu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>2 Juli 2022<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Susiana Samsoedin<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Resources<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Berita Telaga. J<em>ika Seatap Dengan Mertua.<\/em> 2016. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.telaga.org\/berita_telaga\/jika_seatap_dengan_mertua\">https:\/\/www.telaga.org\/berita_telaga\/jika_seatap_dengan_mertua<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Munthaqin, Rendy M. <em>5 Adab Menantu Terhadap Mertua Menurut Ajaran Agama Islam<\/em>. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.popmama.com\/life\/relationship\/rendy-muthaqin\/adab-menantu-terhadap-mertua-menurut-agama-islam\">https:\/\/www.popmama.com\/life\/relationship\/rendy-muthaqin\/adab-menantu-terhadap-mertua-menurut-agama-islam<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sariputta. <em>Kewajiban Anak Terhadap Orang Tua (Dan Mertua)<\/em>. 2018. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sariputta.com\/artikel\/ajaran-dasar\/konten\/kewajiban-anak-terhadap-orang-tua-dan-mertua\/1163\">https:\/\/www.sariputta.com\/artikel\/ajaran-dasar\/konten\/kewajiban-anak-terhadap-orang-tua-dan-mertua\/1163<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sebagai menantu, aku berusaha untuk ngertiin mertuaku. Aku yakin, kalian yang punya mertua juga punya pengalaman gimana rasanya mencoba belajar mengerti orang lain, salah satunya mertua. Jadi menantu ga mudah lho, apalagi di awal-awal pernikahan. Untungnya mertuaku baik banget, supportive dan ngertiin aku juga. Apa aja sih tugas menantu menurut pandangan agama Islam, Buddha dan Kristen? Aku rasa perlu juga lihat pandangan dari agama-agama ini, untuk mencoba mereflksi diriku sendiri mengenai peran aku sebagai menantu dalam keluarga, terutama terhadap mertua. Semoga membantu kalian, yang memiliki peran sebagai menantu juga ya. Pandangan Agama Islam Tugas menantu terhadap mertua menurut pandangan Islam: Pandangan Agama Buddha Menurut pandangan agama Buddha, tugas menantu terhadap mertua: Pandangan Agama Kristen Menurut pandangan Kristen sebaiknya menantu menerima kekurangan mertua, melengkapi kekurangan mertua dengan kelebihan menantu. Selain itu, menantu jangan melakukan sesuatu yang dapat menimbulkan konflik. Konflik di sini maksudnya bikin ribut antara mertua dan anaknya atau cucu dengan mertua atau ipar dengan mertua. Menurutt pandanganku rejeki menantu akan semakin bertambah ketika mertua dibuat bahagia. Dan lebih lagi, ketika hubungan baik terjadi, doa mertua terhadap menantu menambah rejeki sang menantu. 2 Juli 2022 Susiana Samsoedin Resources Berita Telaga. Jika Seatap Dengan Mertua. 2016. https:\/\/www.telaga.org\/berita_telaga\/jika_seatap_dengan_mertua Munthaqin, Rendy M. 5 Adab Menantu Terhadap Mertua Menurut Ajaran Agama Islam. https:\/\/www.popmama.com\/life\/relationship\/rendy-muthaqin\/adab-menantu-terhadap-mertua-menurut-agama-islam Sariputta. Kewajiban Anak Terhadap Orang Tua (Dan Mertua). 2018. https:\/\/www.sariputta.com\/artikel\/ajaran-dasar\/konten\/kewajiban-anak-terhadap-orang-tua-dan-mertua\/1163<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":true,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[37],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v20.5 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Menantu - Susiana Samsoedin<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Apa saja tugas menantu menurut pandangan agama Islam, Buddha dan Kristen? 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